Think twice before you scold people.

This write up is actually to remind all of you to think twice before scolding people.
Why is that so?The reasons listed as below:

1. You might have scolded people who is innocent
2. You might be received other's message incorrectly, either he or she speak another way round, or you interpret it wrongly.
3. You doesn't understand the reason behind of the people behaviour and used-of-language. For instance, one person show you anger face while talking to you. Does it mean that he or she mad about you?Probably, he or she just had some unhappy thing happened around.


So...Does that mean I cannot scold people at all?
Definitely Not!

So...What I should do?!
Before scolding people,
Firstly, you need to control your temper and calm down.
Get clarification from the person, to check whether he or she really mean that.
If there is just some miscommunication, just make everything clear to avoid further
misunderstanding.
If the person behave inappropriately, it is the time for you to answer back politely.
you know....we are highly-educated people. Don't spoil your high class image.lol


About me,
Do you ever see I scold people "kau-kau"? Never right?
It is because I always carry those steps before getting mad into a person.

In Conclusion,
Life is short. Don't bother those little tiny things. Time is wasted if you get bothered.
If you think twice before scolding people, you will find the fact that nothing to be upset.
By the way, don't ever think that you are the winner after scolding people. You would never know who is the real winner...