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原来都是一样
每个小公主心目中都有自己的理想白马王子。。。。。。
童话故事中，亭亭玉立的公主，等待王子骑着白马接她而去。白马王子就是王继人，超级无敌帅加超级好人；
现实生活中，每个女孩都有自己心目中的理想对像。不再是骑着白马，超级无敌帅的男人。而是自己本身对男人的要求。有的喜欢有权有势，有的喜欢诚实老派，有的喜欢谈吐幽默。。。。。。每个女生要求都不一样。
最近发现，虽然随着年龄增长，女生对男人要求有稍微不一样。但是很多时候喜欢的“人种”都是那几“款”（如果男生的你阅读次文章，抱歉，在此形容你们为“款式”。哈哈）。生活中例子看多了，很多朋友换的男朋友都差不多类型。而我呢，寻寻觅觅当中，原来自己还是喜欢某种“款式”的。了解自己固然好事，同时，也深感悲哀。那种“款”的人，太不可靠了，社交生活很棒，口才一流，身为女朋友的，肯定缺乏安全感。是否相信他也成问题。
总结，顺其自然，希望自己待眼识人吧！老天爷请赐我一双明亮的眼睛。
童话故事中，亭亭玉立的公主，等待王子骑着白马接她而去。白马王子就是王继人，超级无敌帅加超级好人；
现实生活中，每个女孩都有自己心目中的理想对像。不再是骑着白马，超级无敌帅的男人。而是自己本身对男人的要求。有的喜欢有权有势，有的喜欢诚实老派，有的喜欢谈吐幽默。。。。。。每个女生要求都不一样。
最近发现，虽然随着年龄增长，女生对男人要求有稍微不一样。但是很多时候喜欢的“人种”都是那几“款”（如果男生的你阅读次文章，抱歉，在此形容你们为“款式”。哈哈）。生活中例子看多了，很多朋友换的男朋友都差不多类型。而我呢，寻寻觅觅当中，原来自己还是喜欢某种“款式”的。了解自己固然好事，同时，也深感悲哀。那种“款”的人，太不可靠了，社交生活很棒，口才一流，身为女朋友的，肯定缺乏安全感。是否相信他也成问题。
梁静茹新歌《你会不会》歌词，诉说了此刻的心情：
“愛來來去去走走停停無論多小心
說過不放感情 直到我遇見你
這不是運氣 是種默契 卻讓我恐懼
OH 你會不會美麗往往都易碎對不對”
說過不放感情 直到我遇見你
這不是運氣 是種默契 卻讓我恐懼
OH 你會不會美麗往往都易碎對不對”
总结，顺其自然，希望自己待眼识人吧！老天爷请赐我一双明亮的眼睛。
Friday, January 7, 2011
Think twice before you scold people.
This write up is actually to remind all of you to think twice before scolding people.
Why is that so?The reasons listed as below:
1. You might have scolded people who is innocent
2. You might be received other's message incorrectly, either he or she speak another way round, or you interpret it wrongly.
3. You doesn't understand the reason behind of the people behaviour and used-of-language. For instance, one person show you anger face while talking to you. Does it mean that he or she mad about you?Probably, he or she just had some unhappy thing happened around.
So...Does that mean I cannot scold people at all?
Definitely Not!
So...What I should do?!
Before scolding people,
Firstly, you need to control your temper and calm down.
Get clarification from the person, to check whether he or she really mean that.
If there is just some miscommunication, just make everything clear to avoid further
misunderstanding.
If the person behave inappropriately, it is the time for you to answer back politely.
you know....we are highly-educated people. Don't spoil your high class image.lol
About me,
Do you ever see I scold people "kau-kau"? Never right?
It is because I always carry those steps before getting mad into a person.
In Conclusion,
Life is short. Don't bother those little tiny things. Time is wasted if you get bothered.
If you think twice before scolding people, you will find the fact that nothing to be upset.
By the way, don't ever think that you are the winner after scolding people. You would never know who is the real winner...
Why is that so?The reasons listed as below:
1. You might have scolded people who is innocent
2. You might be received other's message incorrectly, either he or she speak another way round, or you interpret it wrongly.
3. You doesn't understand the reason behind of the people behaviour and used-of-language. For instance, one person show you anger face while talking to you. Does it mean that he or she mad about you?Probably, he or she just had some unhappy thing happened around.
So...Does that mean I cannot scold people at all?
Definitely Not!
So...What I should do?!
Before scolding people,
Firstly, you need to control your temper and calm down.
Get clarification from the person, to check whether he or she really mean that.
If there is just some miscommunication, just make everything clear to avoid further
misunderstanding.
If the person behave inappropriately, it is the time for you to answer back politely.
you know....we are highly-educated people. Don't spoil your high class image.lol
About me,
Do you ever see I scold people "kau-kau"? Never right?
It is because I always carry those steps before getting mad into a person.
In Conclusion,
Life is short. Don't bother those little tiny things. Time is wasted if you get bothered.
If you think twice before scolding people, you will find the fact that nothing to be upset.
By the way, don't ever think that you are the winner after scolding people. You would never know who is the real winner...
Thursday, December 30, 2010
发牢骚
记得两年前,每天上课,回宿舍后, 都跟舍友发牢骚. 说说那天发生什么事. 大家什么话都说出来, 释放不愉快的事情,或者心事. 因为那样, 日子过得很轻松.
不知怎么的, 我们4个像一家人那样,那么亲密: Jamie,桂妃, 慧思. 大家同屋了2年.
如今毕业了我和桂妃在社会上打混. 想要过回以前日子, 只能必须安排一天大家聚一聚.
想住回去, 因为跟她们一起住,我过得很开心.
Jamie, 是跟我一见如故的大学朋友. 我们在宿舍会突然唱歌一下,停一下,又在唱.我们是很随意, 喜欢唱歌的人. 有时候一起合音. 说好一起去karaoke，可是从来约不到大家都方便的时间。经常听朋友心事的人。是我们家活动策划人。谢谢你经常听我发牢骚。
桂妃， 是Jamie的姐姐。 是我们宿舍的“阿妈”，管家的。哈哈。。。有她在，家里很整齐，干净。或许是一样星座，我们想法有时候也相似。由于经常不在宿舍，聊天不多，可是也有一些时候，我们有深入话题，例如感情问题。跟Jamie一样，在我感情很失落时候，都支持着我。
慧思，跟我同床共枕了1年吧！我出外实习时候，她一个人每晚都孤独在房间里。呵呵。。。全家年纪最小的。由于直肠直吐的性格，有时候我们都笑破肚皮。
希望有一天大家能在聚一聚吧！好想回去住一下。
不知怎么的, 我们4个像一家人那样,那么亲密: Jamie,桂妃, 慧思. 大家同屋了2年.
如今毕业了我和桂妃在社会上打混. 想要过回以前日子, 只能必须安排一天大家聚一聚.
想住回去, 因为跟她们一起住,我过得很开心.
Jamie, 是跟我一见如故的大学朋友. 我们在宿舍会突然唱歌一下,停一下,又在唱.我们是很随意, 喜欢唱歌的人. 有时候一起合音. 说好一起去karaoke，可是从来约不到大家都方便的时间。经常听朋友心事的人。是我们家活动策划人。谢谢你经常听我发牢骚。
桂妃， 是Jamie的姐姐。 是我们宿舍的“阿妈”，管家的。哈哈。。。有她在，家里很整齐，干净。或许是一样星座，我们想法有时候也相似。由于经常不在宿舍，聊天不多，可是也有一些时候，我们有深入话题，例如感情问题。跟Jamie一样，在我感情很失落时候，都支持着我。
慧思，跟我同床共枕了1年吧！我出外实习时候，她一个人每晚都孤独在房间里。呵呵。。。全家年纪最小的。由于直肠直吐的性格，有时候我们都笑破肚皮。
希望有一天大家能在聚一聚吧！好想回去住一下。
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