胡思乱想。看看星座。原来自己想多了。不应该浪费时间在网上找答案了。
时间证明一切。
你别再傻了！
Monday, January 24, 2011
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
原来都是一样
每个小公主心目中都有自己的理想白马王子。。。。。。
童话故事中，亭亭玉立的公主，等待王子骑着白马接她而去。白马王子就是王继人，超级无敌帅加超级好人；
现实生活中，每个女孩都有自己心目中的理想对像。不再是骑着白马，超级无敌帅的男人。而是自己本身对男人的要求。有的喜欢有权有势，有的喜欢诚实老派，有的喜欢谈吐幽默。。。。。。每个女生要求都不一样。
最近发现，虽然随着年龄增长，女生对男人要求有稍微不一样。但是很多时候喜欢的“人种”都是那几“款”（如果男生的你阅读次文章，抱歉，在此形容你们为“款式”。哈哈）。生活中例子看多了，很多朋友换的男朋友都差不多类型。而我呢，寻寻觅觅当中，原来自己还是喜欢某种“款式”的。了解自己固然好事，同时，也深感悲哀。那种“款”的人，太不可靠了，社交生活很棒，口才一流，身为女朋友的，肯定缺乏安全感。是否相信他也成问题。
总结，顺其自然，希望自己待眼识人吧！老天爷请赐我一双明亮的眼睛。
童话故事中，亭亭玉立的公主，等待王子骑着白马接她而去。白马王子就是王继人，超级无敌帅加超级好人；
现实生活中，每个女孩都有自己心目中的理想对像。不再是骑着白马，超级无敌帅的男人。而是自己本身对男人的要求。有的喜欢有权有势，有的喜欢诚实老派，有的喜欢谈吐幽默。。。。。。每个女生要求都不一样。
最近发现，虽然随着年龄增长，女生对男人要求有稍微不一样。但是很多时候喜欢的“人种”都是那几“款”（如果男生的你阅读次文章，抱歉，在此形容你们为“款式”。哈哈）。生活中例子看多了，很多朋友换的男朋友都差不多类型。而我呢，寻寻觅觅当中，原来自己还是喜欢某种“款式”的。了解自己固然好事，同时，也深感悲哀。那种“款”的人，太不可靠了，社交生活很棒，口才一流，身为女朋友的，肯定缺乏安全感。是否相信他也成问题。
梁静茹新歌《你会不会》歌词，诉说了此刻的心情：
“愛來來去去走走停停無論多小心
說過不放感情 直到我遇見你
這不是運氣 是種默契 卻讓我恐懼
OH 你會不會美麗往往都易碎對不對”
說過不放感情 直到我遇見你
這不是運氣 是種默契 卻讓我恐懼
OH 你會不會美麗往往都易碎對不對”
总结，顺其自然，希望自己待眼识人吧！老天爷请赐我一双明亮的眼睛。
Friday, January 7, 2011
Think twice before you scold people.
This write up is actually to remind all of you to think twice before scolding people.
Why is that so?The reasons listed as below:
1. You might have scolded people who is innocent
2. You might be received other's message incorrectly, either he or she speak another way round, or you interpret it wrongly.
3. You doesn't understand the reason behind of the people behaviour and used-of-language. For instance, one person show you anger face while talking to you. Does it mean that he or she mad about you?Probably, he or she just had some unhappy thing happened around.
So...Does that mean I cannot scold people at all?
Definitely Not!
So...What I should do?!
Before scolding people,
Firstly, you need to control your temper and calm down.
Get clarification from the person, to check whether he or she really mean that.
If there is just some miscommunication, just make everything clear to avoid further
misunderstanding.
If the person behave inappropriately, it is the time for you to answer back politely.
you know....we are highly-educated people. Don't spoil your high class image.lol
About me,
Do you ever see I scold people "kau-kau"? Never right?
It is because I always carry those steps before getting mad into a person.
In Conclusion,
Life is short. Don't bother those little tiny things. Time is wasted if you get bothered.
If you think twice before scolding people, you will find the fact that nothing to be upset.
By the way, don't ever think that you are the winner after scolding people. You would never know who is the real winner...
Why is that so?The reasons listed as below:
1. You might have scolded people who is innocent
2. You might be received other's message incorrectly, either he or she speak another way round, or you interpret it wrongly.
3. You doesn't understand the reason behind of the people behaviour and used-of-language. For instance, one person show you anger face while talking to you. Does it mean that he or she mad about you?Probably, he or she just had some unhappy thing happened around.
So...Does that mean I cannot scold people at all?
Definitely Not!
So...What I should do?!
Before scolding people,
Firstly, you need to control your temper and calm down.
Get clarification from the person, to check whether he or she really mean that.
If there is just some miscommunication, just make everything clear to avoid further
misunderstanding.
If the person behave inappropriately, it is the time for you to answer back politely.
you know....we are highly-educated people. Don't spoil your high class image.lol
About me,
Do you ever see I scold people "kau-kau"? Never right?
It is because I always carry those steps before getting mad into a person.
In Conclusion,
Life is short. Don't bother those little tiny things. Time is wasted if you get bothered.
If you think twice before scolding people, you will find the fact that nothing to be upset.
By the way, don't ever think that you are the winner after scolding people. You would never know who is the real winner...
Thursday, December 30, 2010
发牢骚
记得两年前,每天上课,回宿舍后, 都跟舍友发牢骚. 说说那天发生什么事. 大家什么话都说出来, 释放不愉快的事情,或者心事. 因为那样, 日子过得很轻松.
不知怎么的, 我们4个像一家人那样,那么亲密: Jamie,桂妃, 慧思. 大家同屋了2年.
如今毕业了我和桂妃在社会上打混. 想要过回以前日子, 只能必须安排一天大家聚一聚.
想住回去, 因为跟她们一起住,我过得很开心.
Jamie, 是跟我一见如故的大学朋友. 我们在宿舍会突然唱歌一下,停一下,又在唱.我们是很随意, 喜欢唱歌的人. 有时候一起合音. 说好一起去karaoke，可是从来约不到大家都方便的时间。经常听朋友心事的人。是我们家活动策划人。谢谢你经常听我发牢骚。
桂妃， 是Jamie的姐姐。 是我们宿舍的“阿妈”，管家的。哈哈。。。有她在，家里很整齐，干净。或许是一样星座，我们想法有时候也相似。由于经常不在宿舍，聊天不多，可是也有一些时候，我们有深入话题，例如感情问题。跟Jamie一样，在我感情很失落时候，都支持着我。
慧思，跟我同床共枕了1年吧！我出外实习时候，她一个人每晚都孤独在房间里。呵呵。。。全家年纪最小的。由于直肠直吐的性格，有时候我们都笑破肚皮。
希望有一天大家能在聚一聚吧！好想回去住一下。
不知怎么的, 我们4个像一家人那样,那么亲密: Jamie,桂妃, 慧思. 大家同屋了2年.
如今毕业了我和桂妃在社会上打混. 想要过回以前日子, 只能必须安排一天大家聚一聚.
想住回去, 因为跟她们一起住,我过得很开心.
Jamie, 是跟我一见如故的大学朋友. 我们在宿舍会突然唱歌一下,停一下,又在唱.我们是很随意, 喜欢唱歌的人. 有时候一起合音. 说好一起去karaoke，可是从来约不到大家都方便的时间。经常听朋友心事的人。是我们家活动策划人。谢谢你经常听我发牢骚。
桂妃， 是Jamie的姐姐。 是我们宿舍的“阿妈”，管家的。哈哈。。。有她在，家里很整齐，干净。或许是一样星座，我们想法有时候也相似。由于经常不在宿舍，聊天不多，可是也有一些时候，我们有深入话题，例如感情问题。跟Jamie一样，在我感情很失落时候，都支持着我。
慧思，跟我同床共枕了1年吧！我出外实习时候，她一个人每晚都孤独在房间里。呵呵。。。全家年纪最小的。由于直肠直吐的性格，有时候我们都笑破肚皮。
希望有一天大家能在聚一聚吧！好想回去住一下。
Friday, November 12, 2010
智慧
有一天，我阿姨跟我父母和我一起去佛堂念经。在路途中，阿姨投诉姨丈对她呼叫大声，只因为她经常指错目的地方向，导致姨丈的不满。我心想，如果一个人没有弄清楚方向，每次都带我去错方向，我也会生气。可是到底那种生气是应该的吗？男人是不是最讨厌女人那样呢？
过了几天，乘着跟爸爸两个人在车里时候，我问爸：“爸，如果你老婆每次都带你去错地方，一直说好像这里好像那里，一直糊里糊涂，你会生气吗？”
爸：“自己也是该知道怎么去目的地。明知道老婆对方向不确定，自己就应该问人家，还有提早几天自己去找找看。生气有什么用呢？”。
我恍然大悟。原来我们对人不满时候，也该为别人着想；原来，找个善解人意（像我爸那样）的老公，是很重要的。另外爸爸从小教导我做人要利用智慧，我终于了解了当中意义。
总结，世界上，好的，坏的，帅的，丑的，肥的，瘦的。。。什么样的男人都有。或许只有利用尖利的观察和判断，加上一点运气，就能找到好男人好老公吧！目前为止，23岁的我，是那样想的。
过了几天，乘着跟爸爸两个人在车里时候，我问爸：“爸，如果你老婆每次都带你去错地方，一直说好像这里好像那里，一直糊里糊涂，你会生气吗？”
爸：“自己也是该知道怎么去目的地。明知道老婆对方向不确定，自己就应该问人家，还有提早几天自己去找找看。生气有什么用呢？”。
我恍然大悟。原来我们对人不满时候，也该为别人着想；原来，找个善解人意（像我爸那样）的老公，是很重要的。另外爸爸从小教导我做人要利用智慧，我终于了解了当中意义。
总结，世界上，好的，坏的，帅的，丑的，肥的，瘦的。。。什么样的男人都有。或许只有利用尖利的观察和判断，加上一点运气，就能找到好男人好老公吧！目前为止，23岁的我，是那样想的。
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
A Motivation Song
The Climb - by Miley Cyrus
I can almost see it
That dream I’m dreamin
But there’s a voice inside my head saying
“you’ll never reach it”
Every step I’m taking
Every move I make feels
Lost with ’known direction
My faith is shakin
But I gotta keep tryin
Gotta keep my handheld high
I can almost see it
That dream I’m dreamin
But there’s a voice inside my head saying
“you’ll never reach it”
Every step I’m taking
Every move I make feels
Lost with ’known direction
My faith is shakin
But I gotta keep tryin
Gotta keep my handheld high
There’s always gonna be another mountain.
I’m always gonna wanna make it move.
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Sometimes I’m gonna have to lose.
Ain’t about how fast I get there.
Ain’t about what’s waitin on the other side.
It’s the climb.
The struggles I’m facing.
The chances I’m taking.
Sometimes might knock me down but
No I’m not breaking.
I may not know it but these are the moments that
I’m gonna remember most, yeah.
I Just gotta keep going.
And I gotta be strong.
Just keep pushing on,
’cause,
There’s always gonna be another mountain.
I’m always gonna wanna make it move.
Always gonna be an uphill battle
But Sometimes I’m gonna have to lose.
Ain’t about how fast I get there.
Ain’t about what’s waitin on the other side.
It’s the climb.
Yeah-yeah
There’s always gonna be another mountain.
I’m always gonna wanna make it move.
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Sometimes you’re gonna have to lose.
Ain’t about how fast I get there.
Ain’t about what’s waitin on the other side.
It’s the climb.
Yeah-yeah-yea
Keep on moving,
Keep climbing,
Keep the faith,
Baby
It’s all about,
It’s all about the climb
Keep your faith,
Keep your faith
Whoa, O Whoa
Monday, October 11, 2010
A message to you and me: I am just Learning
I maybe asking too much now.
I maybe doing thing too slow.
I maybe don't know a lot of stuffs.
I maybe look dumb now.
I want to tell you that....
I'm still adapting
I'm still gaining knowledge
I'm still recalling what I learnt
I maybe ask too much because...
Simply...I don't know about it at all.
I'm still adapting new environment
I want to avoid any mistakes that can harm patient- Just to follow the rule of "do no harm" to patient.
and sometimes, I find it lack of guidance.
Don't ever and ever bully new staff.
Or simply scold ppl...
Don't forget......YOU WERE NEW FEW YEARS BACK.
I maybe doing thing too slow.
I maybe don't know a lot of stuffs.
I maybe look dumb now.
I want to tell you that....
I'm still adapting
I'm still gaining knowledge
I'm still recalling what I learnt
I maybe ask too much because...
Simply...I don't know about it at all.
I'm still adapting new environment
I want to avoid any mistakes that can harm patient- Just to follow the rule of "do no harm" to patient.
and sometimes, I find it lack of guidance.
Don't ever and ever bully new staff.
Or simply scold ppl...
Don't forget......YOU WERE NEW FEW YEARS BACK.
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